The Privilege of “Not Having to Be Affected”

The following article analyzes constructions of masculinity through sexting practices among adolescents in Germany. Drawing on theories of masculinity and data from group discussions with adolescents, the research identifies gendered differences in experiences of sexual boundary violations via digital media. Male participants in our study use distancing strategies and do not perceive themselves as affected by such violations, while female participants identify themselves as potential victims. This phenomenon is interpreted as the masculine privilege of “not having to be affected.” The article argues that autonomy emerges as a key paradigm in contemporary constructions of masculinity. These findings contribute to understanding how gender inequalities are reinforced through digital sexual communication and highlight the role of perceived autonomy in maintaining hegemonic masculinity.